while back i was having a conversation with a friend about how we have never met a woman who wasnt sexually harassed or worse at some point in her life.
this was not implying that men havent been hurt or assaulted, just that not a single woman i know has gone without that violation at some point in her life.
that there is beyond sad. That is…[Read more]

im on an “i try to eat healthy but sometimes im too tired and just live on apple cinnamon cheerios and chocolate almond milk” diet
a day without cheese is a sad day
as long as there are potatoes and eggs ill be fine
but if you ask the ElfChild, a day without tortilla shells and chicken is nary a day at all
last time i was at macdonalds was…[Read more]

gawsh who even are you any more?!

instead, ill tell you what gets me Right Shook!
coming in to work every 3rd day or so, after the full timer has been on, and finding all the white cupboard doors stained practically pink and brown because apparently it is impossible for her to bend and wipe a door after spilling some juice, which would take her 2 seconds, instead of the 5…[Read more]

@Scarlett it was a hot topic recently with the new curriculum. there were a Lot of protests from various religious sects. the solution was that if these classes offend or go against your personal religious or cultural ways, then opt out. not the first time this has happened. already happens in some senses. so it was an easy shift for them to have…[Read more]

@griz hahahahah o man! thats great! “picked up a sweet sandlewood bar if you want to join me on the porch for some soaps later ” :D
ooooono

all im going to say is i prove to be a resourceful woman

revision;

sometimes i remember to seek beauty and peace and calm amidst the mess and paces.
thank you for asking this question. im glad i checked in tonight. on my walk home this was on my mind. under my slightly bent umbrella on a not quite cool october evening, listening to the calm sounds of rain and noticing the way the street lights shone…[Read more]

not currently but i getcha!
my favourite corner is the place where i put all my plants when i was bringing them off the balcony. a little table now over run with houseplants :D the rest is either comfortable or cluttered. i need to work on this
my sons room is great, the living room has good parts to it. my bedroom, beneath the clutter and…[Read more]

i need to make time for good in my life. i feel like most of the time i am working to make sure other people have quality of life. and mine comes down to the fine soaps i buy myself :D self care is vital
i think i know how to improve it but i dont know for sure. its the when maybe? i think sometimes i have high quality of life and other times im…[Read more]