A ride or die person is someone who will stick with you through any problems. They are there for you through thick and thin, because they would rather ride with you or die trying. Do you have ride or die people? I hope you do! Conversely, are you anyone’s ride or die person? How did you come by this dynamic?




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  1. immortal_pirate 4 months ago

    I do, and have done. Lady Barbara is my rider.
    I had another and He died for me a long time ago…He was crucified by the Romans. I only hope that when my time comes, He will say the same for me, that I died for him.

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  2. ladybarbara 4 months ago

    I think my ride or die person is Immortal Pirate. I also have a cousin Sue-Sue that has stuck by me through thick and thin all of my life. These two have my back.

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      Scarlett2 4 months ago

      @ladybarbara I think it is great you guys are there for each other. In my life, for a long time, I did not have many people I could depend on at all. If they were not actively hurting me, they were at least weren’t there.

      I have what you describe, too. One of the best part is that my grown children are that for me now, too. Everyone always laments the fact that their kids are growing up, but I see it as a beautiful thing.

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  3. Squirrel 4 months ago

    They all left.

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      Scarlett2 4 months ago

      @Squirrel You can find more. Look for safe people. Think of what a safe person would be like. What characteristics would they have? Conversely, what characteristics would you need in order to be safe for them?

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      • Squirrel 4 months ago

        @Scarlett2 a balance of acceptance and criticism of substance use, shared interests, a sense of humor, emotional vulnerability, schedule availability, possible geographic proximity, and the desire to be friends. Got ideas based on that?

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        Scarlett2 4 months ago

        @Squirrel I am afraid I am not following what you mean about a balance between acceptance and criticism of substance use. Do you want someone who will not judge you, but offer constructive criticism as needed? It may be that you meet a safe person who doesn’t judge you, but sets a boundary that they don’t want the substances used around them or doesn’t want to be around you while you’re under the influence. Then there are others who may be completely accepting of it. Why did the former friends leave? Were there any that left a door open to continue the friendship under any certain circumstances?

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  4. Tits McGee 4 months ago

    @Scarlett2

    Good lord – you think that pirate and the stink have another answer? what did you think their answers were going to be?

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